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You Can Live Happily Ever After in Love
Timeless Wisdom for Modern Relatiomnships
by Andrew Quinn

The fairytale endings of love in movies and books have long stirred people’s hearts. Hollywood romance movies historically end with their first kiss hinting at ‘happily ever after’. Yet these tales sadly contrast with divorce rates. For most people, romantic love has been a powerful force that at some stage has become conflicted, stagnated or led to the end of the relationship. So where is the truth between the fairytale and the reality? Read More...

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Transformational Healing - Case study of Marilyn

Marilyn came for two sessions of Transformational Healing. She was not attending for counselling, but was looking for some assistance regarding her marriage.

After starting the healing and moving the energy through her crown chakra and down her spine, I saw an image two thirds of the way down her back. The image was of a metal ring through her spine, which was attached to a metal chain. I then saw an image of a man’s lower leg wearing black trousers and black shoes. She confirmed that her husband always wore black suits and shoes to work.

I could then see an image that her husband had the chain over his shoulder and was dragging her along in his own direction, as he pleased. Marilyn admitted that this was what he did. We could then explore her fears and emotional reactions to living this way, including the price she pays.

She admitted to thinking of leaving, but had fears of her financial income, while looking after her children. However, I could sense that if she had not left within two years, her physical health would suffer. I described how his energy of anger was so strong, that it was palpable if you are in the same room. She admitted to often not being in the same room as him.

This session was of benefit to Marilyn as it confirmed what she already knew, but was finding it difficult to do. The second session took us into her childhood.

An image came to me of her head snapping back quickly, like being hit. She confirmed that her mother did this. We explored these occurrences and how they impacted on her. I then became aware of an image of her father in the next room, reading a newspaper. The clear image was that he preferred to read the newspaper rather than get involved. This allowed Marilyn to see that he preferred not to risk his marriage, and therefore failed to protect his daughter. Marilyn had never seen this before. She had been focused on her mother’s active aggression, that she did not see her father’s passive neglect.

This allowed her the chance to explore her anger at her father, which she had not yet connected to, which was likely in some way to be playing out in her current relationship with her husband.

© Andrew Quinn 2006-10.
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